Now, on to the other stuff. I'm not very sexually experienced. Don't get me wrong I've had sex but I don't orgasm. I like when I first start off having sex but then it's like I get tired or bored and I'm just not into it anymore.
On to the good stuff…. NoOrgasm, personally, I find the fact that you deemed the other half of your questions as "inappropriate," to be inappropriate. In the world of sex, nothing's inappropriate (correction, except for paraphilias). The worst place to fear what others think of you is in the bedroom! In my opinion, it's usually the people who shun these activities that want them most... except for maybe grandparents. Sorry about the image, but anyway...
In regard to your lack of "orgasm skills", the best piece of advice I could give is to MASTURBATE. How is your partner supposed to know what gets you off when you don't know yourself?
As for boredom in the bedroom, maybe try to extend foreplay. Figure out some techniques that he/she can do that will peak your arousal before engaging in intercourse. These techniques can range from simple kissing of the erogenous zones to… well, to other things. If you’re not very turned on, I can imagine sex becoming a bore.
Love,
Joey
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